4. Join a Support Group:
Honestly, nearly any form of support will do… it does not have to be in the form of a traditional support group, although… I will encourage this form as the ideal version… simply because some individually based relationships can become complicated.
A group gives individual connections a chance, but also allows the entire or whole group to be there to perceive from an outside perspective what is going or has gone on and been able to give feedback or group-support (which is sometimes more powerful than individual support) when problems arise.
Problems will arise, as they do for any person, not just the ones who experience BPD. Even though it might feel a little unusual at first, you might even try out a few different groups to see if you like one more than another. In the end, though… try to find a group you can attend regularly.
There is almost nothing more valuable than having a group of people who know you, that you can relate to, and who are there to make positive progress and care for one another as an ultimate goal.