4. You frequently feel lonelier in a group than when you’re by yourself.
There is something in particular about being with a gathering of individuals that causes you to feel detached from yourself. Possibly this is on the grounds that it’s difficult to hear your inward voice when there’s such a great amount of commotion around you. Whatever the explanation, as an introvert you desire cozy minutes and profound associations — and those generally aren’t found in a group. Most of the time it’s lonely to be in a group setting is because people around you have similar interests and you just don’t fit in.
Even if they try to get you into the conversation it will feel awkward. They will start asking personal questions that you don’t care to share. The only time you feel comfortable is around someone who understands you. Even family gatherings can be a chore. Everyone is having fun mingling and you’re in a corner, but you’re enjoying yourself in the corner.